While the internet is mostly a safe place, there are similar traps and pitfalls you may encounter in real life. We believe the bulk of Forever Young Club members are genuine folk seeking friendship, yet there may still be a handful who choose to do the wrong thing and misuse the purpose of the site.

Though Forever Young Club might not be able to completely eliminate the threat of dishonesty, members can take preventive steps by simply being aware of a few tell-tale signs we have listed below.

Watch out for inconsistencies. For example, it could be broken English when the person claims to be a native English speaker, or a phone number or email address that doesn't coincide with where the person claims to live.

Coming on strong? Be careful of anyone who comes on too strongly or who rapidly and repeatedly tries to get you to communicate with them outside of Forever Young Club.

Asking for money? Be careful if anyone asks you to send them money so that they can come visit you - this is another common scam. Often you will send the money and never hear from the person again.

Ask Questions! This is very important. If someone is only interested in learning about you there may be something wrong. Make sure they are willing to answer your questions as well, and always check that their answers are consistent.

Don’t reveal personal details! We strongly discourage members against revealing personal details through the site. Never include your last name, email address, home address, phone number, place of work or any other identifying information in your online profile or first correspondence with someone.

Request photos. See if you can view a few photos of someone. If you only get excuses as to why you can't see a photo, consider that he or she has something to hide.

Chat on the phone or use the audio / video capabilities on the FYC chat room. If you do chat on the phone, do not reveal your personal phone number to a stranger. Try a mobile phone number instead or use local telephone blocking techniques to prevent your phone number from appearing in a Caller ID.

Meeting up for the first time? It is important to employ common sense when going on a date. Go to a public place where there is constant human traffic and let a friend or relative know beforehand where you will be and the time you expect to be home. Carry a mobile phone at all times.

If things get tricky? If you are in any way uncomfortable at a meeting, use your best judgment and excuse yourself long enough to: call a friend for advice, ask someone else on the scene for help or just leave. Never worry or feel embarrassed about your reaction. Your safety is much more important than one person’s opinion of you.

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